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"Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."
-Philippians 3:13-14

A Single Reflection
Column by Eileen Hershberger

Reflections: Old and New


What comes to mind when you think about a New Year? Are you glad that the old one is (almost) past or do you wish it could last just a bit longer? Did you grow in your relationships in the past year, or did
they all seem to fall apart? Did you grow as a believer in Jesus? Was there something that you wish you could redo and live over again, or perhaps something you would want to respond to differently? Whatever the past year may have held for you, the important thing is to reflect honestly and learn from the joys, mistakes, trials and triumphs you encountered.
 
Reflection is “a fixing of thoughts on something; careful consideration”.1  It takes time and effort to reflect but the rewards are numerous. Honest reflection will cause us to draw closer to the One who created us, because we realize how big He is and how incredibly tiny we are. Honest reflection causes us to acknowledge that there are things that we need to take responsibility for, people we need to forgive or perhaps ask for their forgiveness. We will remember blessings received and miracles witnessed. We will be amazed and delighted at the goodness of an everlasting God who never leaves or forsakes us in this journey of life and we will find ourselves growing from our reflecting.
 
Sometimes it is hard to remember things from one day to the next much less trying to remember things that have happened over the course of a year, but I challenge you to make time to grab a notebook or journal and spend some time reflecting and writing down those things that have happened in the past year. Be truthful even if it hurts and work through things that will only drag you down if you continue to hold on to them. If you are a journal writer, take your journal and go through the past year’s entries. However you do it, spend time in honest reflection and surrender those things that are beyond your control to God and give praise and thanks for all the good things that you have experienced throughout the last year. You may be surprised at which list is the longest when you are finished.
 
In Philippians 3, Paul tells the church at Philippi to rejoice and to count everything else as rubbish in light of knowing God and walking with Him. He knows he has not yet arrived “but one thing I do; forgetting what lies behind, and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus”(Phil 3:13-14). This should be our goal for the New Year. We need to forget what lies behind us (work through it and then leave it where it belongs—in the past!) and reach forward, (take a risk, do that impossible thing, dream big, step out of your comfort zone) looking for God in all we do and all that happens to us. We need to press on and keep going, never giving up because we serve a God who is much bigger than we are and who is found during times of reflecting and listening for Him.
 
As you take down the old calendar and replace it with a new one, may you pause to remember the old but look forward with anticipation to the new. Work to develop a habit of spending time reflecting and thanking God as you "press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God". The benefits will outweigh the sacrifice and discipline it takes to get started and you will be on your way to an incredible new year.
 

 

1Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.0.1). Random House, Inc. 17 Dec. 2006. <Dictionary.com>

About the Author: Eileen Hershberger is a full-time student pursuing a degree in Early Childhood Education, and a part-time server. She enjoys reading, music, travel and baseball when not working or studying.

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