You’re one of the lucky ones. You have managed
the best of both worlds by choosing to stay at
home with your children while still advancing in
your career. So how do you make it work? Here
are a few tips:
Control your environment.
A clearly designated office will help you stay
on task. And an organized workspace will help
minimize distractions and make the most of the
limited time you have available.
Break work into manageable chunks.
It’s all about to-do lists. When my child is
awake, she has my full attention, though I
always have a to-do list on the table. The list
just seems to grow all day and when naptime
rolls around, I’m focused and ready to tackle
the tasks at hand.
Make the most of quiet time.
When are you most productive? It may be possible
for you to get work done during the day (while
your children are napping or at school), but,
chances are, the best opportunities for
productivity occur when your child is down for
the night. My work day, for example, typically
begins at 3 a.m. That way, I can spend
uninterrupted, quality time with my daughter
during the day.
Remember your priorities.
A child whose mother ignores her in order to
work at home is probably better off in the care
of someone who is less distracted.
Get help when you need it.
Lesley Spencer is the founder and director of
Home-Based Working Moms. “I think it is
important to understand it is very difficult to
be a successful mom and worker at the same
time,” Spencer says. “If you are working, your
children are going to need your attention. Of
course, you can get by with short amounts of
work or phone calls but repeated attempts to
work while your children are with you is not
fair to them or you. I feel it is best to work
while your children are asleep or at school. If
you are working more than about 10 hours a week,
you probably need outside help to give your
children the attention they need. Consider
part-time preschools, Mother’s Day Out programs,
neighborhood babysitters, family or friends or a
babysitting co-op to help with your child care
needs.”
Copyright © by Susie
Cortright
Photo courtesy of Jon Wisbey.
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